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We
have provided for you, in the following,
some situations or customs in Japan which
may be unfamiliar to those visiting Japan
for the first time. Hopefully, we will
answer some questions which you may have in
regard to the Japanese culture and its
people, in general. We also hope this will
give you some insight and tips on what to
expect and do in Japan during your visit.
The information provided should help in both
a business and leisure setting. We will keep
updating this section periodically. So,
please visit us here once in a while.
Seating Arrangements:
It is very important to know where to seat
people at a table whether at a conference,
meeting or meals. In many cases, your
Japanese hosts will indicate which seat
you should take. They have intricate
seating rules based on your position and
seniority. Typically, the most important
person at a function gets the best seat.
For instance, you would not sit someone
near the door, but would allow them to
have the best view of the area surrounding
the function. (The seat with a view of the
outside, or one which allows them to see
the entire restaurant.)
Not only are there seating arrangements at
a table, but there are particular seating
arrangements in a car, as well. Guests are
seated in a car by the safest seat to the
least safest seat. For those of you
thinking "Shot Gun", that is the most
dangerous seat in the car.
Either by seniority or status, persons are
seated as follows:
Seat behind the driver as safest. Next is
the seat behind the front passenger. The
"hump" seat in the middle of the rear is
next safest and finally, the all favorite
front passenger seat, "Shot Gun", is the
last seat you will offer to your guest.
Business Cards:
It is very customary in Japan to give out
your business card, or MEHSHI in Japanese.
Even if you do not have a company business
card, such as a student, many Japanese
people have their own cards made up with
all pertinent information included. (Full
Name, Address and Telephone Numbers) You
should always carry business card with
you. As most Japanese can read English,
your business card does not need to be in
Japanese. A business person without a
business card is like a person without a
face.
The proper etiquette of giving and
receiving
a business card is as follows:
When you give a business card to a person,
do not toss it or place it on the table in
front of the person. Always give it by
hand, using both hands, if you feel
comfortable. Accept one in return and
study it. Do not put it away quickly. It
is OK to write on his or her business card
such as the meeting date or something
which will help you remember this person
in the future.
Understanding Negotiation Practices:
There is a common practice among Japanese
businessmen which is misunderstood by
foreigners during negotiation and
contracting. During meetings with
foreigners and even amongst Japanese
themselves, Japanese businessmen tend to
nod and say yes in agreement. This is a
common practice which does not completely
mean that your counterpart is agreeing
with you or in compliance with the
negotiations. Nodding and continually
saying yes while under negotiations has a
very different meaning. If not understood,
many foreign businessmen will complete
negotiations with the impression that
things went very well and in favor of the
foreigner. Japanese businessmen tend to
nod or say yes to show they are listening
to you. Saying yes and nodding confirms
that they understand what you are saying.
They understand your English or concepts,
they generally are not agreeing with you.
Keep this in mind when negotiating with
Japanese businessmen.
Magic phrase "I am sorry (Sumimasen)"
In non-Japanese cultures, people tend to
say "I am sorry" only when they truly feel
that way or when saying the phrase does
not bring about negative consequences. In
Japan, the phrase "I am sorry" or the
Japanese term "Sumimasen" is used very
frequently. The term is used in place of
"Excuse me" when you want to address a
person. It is used in place of "Thank
you", or in many cases when you want to be
polite, or sound harmonious. Thus, if you
want to act in accordance with the
Japanese culture, be sure to use the term
"Sumimasen" quiet often.
In Japan, the culture tends to be very
humble. People tend to take blame upon
themselves. Uttering the term "I am
sorry'' does not bind you legally or
financially. There is an episode related
to this, which shows a flip side. Many
Japanese foreign tour guidebooks teach
Japanese tourists to not say "I am sorry".
For example, if a Japanese tourist were to
be involved in a car accident, the books
say" uttering the phrase confirms your
admission of guilt and hence, the books
claim that they will be liable for
damages.
It is very different in the Japanese
culture and may be difficult to get used
to.
Gift Giving:
The gift giving ritual in Japan is very
elaborate. As a rule, when Japanese people
visit a company or friends, especially a
visit for the first time, one usually
carries a small gift. It is not expected
that an outsider bear gifts when visiting
Japan. However, gifts are always
appreciated. A local partner, if you have
one, can advise you what to bring to your
meeting. We would recommend something
small and light, but not too expensive,
such as a pen or tie pin. The fact that
you offered a token gift matters more than
the gift itself. If you know that you will
be meeting with 10 people, be sure to have
12 gifts so that you can give one gift to
everybody, including a few unexpected
attendees.
Miscellaneous:
Most Japanese cities differ somewhat to
those in advanced nations such as New York
city or any Western European city. Density
is a lot higher than in American or
European cities. You may see a wall of
people walking against or with you. Follow
the stream of people when you walk. Don't
expect "excuse me" from Japanese people
when you are bumped. -- The flip side of
this may be that if you are bumped by
someone in an American city, and no
apology is given, this person is most
probably Japanese. --
In Japan, foreigners used to attract a
gaze or stare. However, this not so any
more in central Tokyo. In more rural
areas, you may feel that the people around
you are staring.
What Japanese Think of Americans:
Although you may not notice this during
your visit, many Japanese believe that it
is OK to be blunt or direct in American
culture. Their typical perception of an
American person is rich and good looking,
one with blond hair and blue eyes. (We at
Ohashi High Technology do not qualify as
Americans since all of us have dark hair
and many of us are emigrants from Japan
and racially Japanese.)
Getting Around:
Walking. Of course, this is the best way
of getting to know a strange place. Japan
is safe and clean, --- at all times. So,
go ahead and walk as far as you can. It is
common knowledge that a woman can walk by
herself late at night in most places
without looking over her shoulder.
Japan has one of the best public
transportation systems in the world.
Trains in Japan pride themselves on the
accurateness of arrival and departure. So
much so, you can set your watch to
scheduled departures and arrivals. One can
pretty much get around using public
transportation. There are networks of
various trains, including a very clean
subway system to get you where you want to
go.
No reservations are necessary on the
Shinkan-sen (the famous "bullet train")
except for first class seats (called
"Green" seats). In major cities, trains
run every few minutes. So, you don't even
need to know the train schedule. Go to the
train station and jump on the one that
comes next. You must buy a ticket before
you enter the boarding area, however. If
it seems difficult to know the exact fare,
get the lowest fare, which is around US$1,
and pay the difference after you get off
when you show your ticket to a clerk at
the exit. Most trains run from 5:30am or
so to around midnight.
A Useful Tip: Obtain a
JR Rail Pass for a week or
two before you leave for Japan. It works
like a Eurail pass and you can use the JR
rail/bus/ferry system within all of Japan
for the entire duration. This JR rail pass
includes some lines on the Shinkan-sen
("Kodama" (echo) and "Hikari" (light).
However, the fastest of the bullet trains,
which runs between Tokyo and Osaka, is not
included. This line is called "Nozomi"
(hope). JR is a collection of the largest
private railroad companies in Japan, all
of which were once owned and ran by the
Japanese government as one entity. A one
week pass for one person will cost about
$200. A round trip between Tokyo and Osaka
will cost you more than the week pass. A
first class pass on the JR will run about
$240. -- If you can not find a place to
buy a pass, give us a call.
We strongly don't suggest renting a car in
Japan. Most of your time would be spent
looking for parking.
Tipping:
Tipping is not required nor expected.
Weekend Visits:
Kyoto
Kyoto is an ancient Japanese capital. It
takes about 3 hours of bullet train ride
from Tokyo or 30 minutes from Osaka. It
is worth spending one or two days. Kyoto
has many ancient wooden temples and
shrines. The city itself is modern.
Hundreds of ancient temples and shines
scatter around on the modern streets.
We suggest that your list should
include:
Kiyomizu-dera,
Kinkaku-ji
and Ryu-an-ji.
At night, we suggest strolling around
Gion, and Ponto-cho. You should be able
to find a reasonable eatery as you walk
around.
Nikko
Nikko is located close to Tokyo, to the
north. It is a little town with lots of
historic wooden architecture located in
the mountains. If you do not have enough
time to go to Kyoto, we suggest Nikko
instead. You can make a day trip from
Tokyo.
Kamakura
Kamakura is a historic city with ancient
architecture. Kamakura is one hour train
ride from Tokyo or 30 minutes from
Yokohama.
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